Monday, July 13, 2009

Elmbrook Message: 10 Words for Life #5 Honor Parents

Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.
Exodus 20:12

God intended for the Family to be the basic building block of civilization and the primary means of passing His story from one generation to the next.

Check out theMessage here:


Here is the slide deck if you want to follow along:


As we continue our series on the 10 words for life, this week we tackle perhaps the hardest of them all: Honor your father and your mother. For some, this Word comes easy. Your parents were great and you have no regrets, but for many many others family is associated with pain, shame, and anger. Their homelife looked (or looks) like a war zone, and the idea of honoring the flawed humans who caused them so much pain seems impossible. Our prayer is that we all may find hope and healing no matter what our family looked like.

Friday, June 05, 2009

Great Post on Youth Ministry Hiring

Found this on a friends site:

Click here to read the post:


Top Ten Ways to Ruin a Young Pastor (By jim Vining)
10. Promise big things in their interviews, and then pull back on those promises once the family is on site.

9. Do not bother mentoring them or investing in their personal or professional development.

8. Ask them to reach new people, but force them to think the same way as the existing staff.

7. Ask them to bring change, but do not allow them to do anything different.

6. Young Pastor’s Concerns = Never Valid. Member’s Concerns about Young Pastor = Always Valid.

5. Give them responsibility, but do not give them the authority to accomplish those things.

4. Give them greater workloads than other pastors, but also less respect.

3. Say one thing in private meetings, another thing in staff or elder meetings, and another thing in Sunday Worship.

2. Reject their ideas, tell them how to do it, and when it does not work … blame them.

1. Allow your personal insecurities to interpret the young pastor’s words and deeds as attempts to mock you or steal your job.



There are a few I would add or tweak... so maybe in a few years when I find time to blog again, I will generate my own list...

Wednesday, May 06, 2009

Flail

If you can run toward your hopes... if you can't walk toward your ambition. If you can even crawl or scoot toward the object of your greatest dreams... you can always flail for all your worth.

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Laughing Baby Brown

Saturday, April 04, 2009

Context: Containers for Relationships


Relationships die without context.

Take a strong friendship that "works" while two people are both part of the same context, and see what happens if that context is removed prematurely. Contexts can include clubs, sports teams, work, neighborhoods, churches, and more. Relationships developed any of these contexts can be real and substantial, yet if the context is removed (Ex. the church dissolves) then the relationships will langure in emotional purgatory for a while and eventually feel like a flat as a two liter of Mountain Dew.

Its not the friendship cannot rediscover itself in a new context, they just don't most of the time.

Context is what keeps it from provides the place to see each other and remember how much you appreciate each other.

Context is what provides the rhythm of the relationship.

Context is the fabric upon which the friendship is written.

Not all contexts are equal, and not all are easily replaced.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Cool Presentation on 21st Century Educators

Found this on slideshare and thought it was worth taking a look at.

Monday, February 02, 2009

Francis Chan: Luke Warm and Loving it.

Francis Chan is cool. Randomly found this on youtube:



OH... and part of his Catalyst message from 2007

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Hero Movie: Skitz's Story.

Skitz was failing as a friend. For some reason he had changed and had not bothered to give his friends the memo. They looked in at his life and wanted to be part of it, but he did not know how to invite them in. Even his best friend was starting to wonder what his deal was, how could a kid with his whole life through college scheduled in his iPhone be so unavailable.



This is a rough cut, so there is still some work to be done on it.
Make sure to click on the "Watch in High Quality" link. It is in the lower right corner of the player

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Hero Movie Preview

This clip is a montage from the upcoming Hero Movie that I shot with some friends last summer. It chronicles the life of Sarah, one of the main characters. While at school she seems to be falling further and further behind, her she has a secret that will explain it all.

This is a rough cut, so there is still some work to be done on it.
Make sure to click on the "Watch in High Quality" link. It is in the lower right corner of the player

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Cohen's First Three Months...

For some reason, slide share cut out the last 5 pages...
Cohen M. Brown 3 Months
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Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Creativity in the hands of a new generation of Creators.

I think that young people today have a huge advantage when it comes to creativity. They were born with a tool that makes creativity more easier to express: the personal computer.

Now, a computer is not the first thing that you think of when you think of creativity (unless you use a mac ;), but the personal computers we use today allow people to record their own movies and songs, write and publish their own books, create their own publications, businesses, websites, and more... all before they graduate high school.

It does not mean it is easier to produce good art, or to duplicate the professional quality of a CD or Hollywood movie. That level of "perfection" and production are hard to achieve, however, youtube has proven to us that most people are totally happy to watch user generated "real" content.

I don't know how old the dude in this video is, but he is a great example of using a personal computer and to create a fun and decent video which over a million people have watched on youtube.

Whats up with the Economy?

Recently i ran across some very helpful videos presenting metaphors explaining what is "wrong" with the economy right now. I thought they were very good, and found first heard about the people doing them on Presentation Zen.

I think that the biggest issues creating the economic crisis are greed, foolishness, and fear. But the things that are described in these videos by Marketplace Senior Editor Paddy Hirsch do a great job of quantifying at least the greed part. They are really simple to understand and put the crisis in terms that non economically gifted people can understand.





Thursday, November 06, 2008

Gritty Hope

>In an election year, it is seems easier than normal to get discouraged; To feel like life is not getting better, but worse.Perhaps it has something to do with all the “uplifting” political commercials we have been watching for the last two years. While many tudents make it through middle school with out a care in the word, we are finding that and increasing amount of students feel stressed, worried, angry and alone.

As a Middle School Pastor, I run into discouraged students often. Some face the normal struggle of growing up, but not all. Increasingly many of their life stories are so overwhelming that they hit you like a punch in the gut when you hear them. Students in the suburbs who are starving themselves, cutting themselves, hating themselves, dreading the circumstances of their life, and, even wondering if anyone cares about their suffering. Quietly they ask in the dark, “does God see me... does he care... is he even there?”

Discouragement and disillusionment seem to be everywhere, yet for the Christian, we struggle to cling to hope. Not blind optimism that ignores the true struggle of life, nor pessimism which surrenders to the darkness of despair, but gritty hope that finds a way to believe that God will not abandon us in the dark.

The bible is full of this sort of hope. The Apostle Paul describes the reality of this hope in these terms:
“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. (2 Cor. 4:8-9)“

Its hard to imagine a worse marketing tag line that that, but the Bible’s honesty rings true. Faith doesn’t promise life won’t be hard, but faith promises God is enough. God can get us through it.

The psalmist describes this faith when he states that
“even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; (Psalm 23:4).”

The valley will come, and it will be dark, but God is with us in the valley. This statement reminds of some of Jesus parting words words, when he tells us that he will be with us always (Matt 28:18). In the midst of our personal periods of darkness, Jesus is described as the light which shines into our depression, fear, abandonment, loneliness, and emptiness.

Hope of this sort can be found. Its authenticity rises above superficiality and platitudes. An authenticity born from the refusal to ignore the pain and struggle, while at the same time clinging to the belief that God hears our cries and he cares about our struggles.

This is the sort of hope so many students today need. Real hope that God’s light can reach the darkest corner of their soul, driving out their fears, and replacing them with love. A hope that God is making all things new, and that one day they will experience a city where there are no shadows of doubt no dark corners of despair. Where Jesus himself is our ever present and constant light.

The needs are great, but so are the opportunities. We have the chance to shine the light for those who need it most.

May we be the ones who carry the torch of grace and love into the darkness that so many face!

Saturday, November 01, 2008

Steve Jobs Called me today...

Steve Jobs (Actually his office) called me today. A few days ago I emailed them about my ongoing struggle with MobileMe/.mac.

Over the last few years, I have had either .mac, or MobileMe delete all of my contacts, without asking, at least 5 times.

It is a chilling experience to go to email someone, only to have an empty address book staring you back in the face. Worse still, when you are on the go, with your super - iPhone, and need to make the timely important call... and every single contact you have is gone...

So... after taking it for a few years, I was done... I sent Steve the following email:

Steve,

I love your products, but am really frustrated. Today for the fifth time, my contacts were entirely erased. I went to send an email, and they were just gone. Gone on my iPhone, gone on my macbook pro, gone on Mobile me. Just gone.

I don't want to bother you, but could you please go down to the MobileMe department and look deep in their eyes and get them to make MobileMe "really great"?

I would really appreciate it.

Thinking different,
Brandon


So, my wife laughed at me when I sent my emails to steve@(mac; me; apple).com... but she just smiled when Steve Jobs himself (not really steve, but a very nice personal representative of Steve Jobs' office) in California gave me a call to let me know he (actually the representative) was concerned with my problem. Steve personally (actually his personal representative named nate) just wanted to make sure I was getting the type of care that my situation warranted.

Now... they have escalated my trouble to an engineering team..

So... His Steve-ness,
while I still want MobileMe to 'just work', thanks for the call. I suppose it makes me a rabid fanboy to be moved by your gesture, but your personal call (actually that of your rep nate) put my worries at ease. Thanks for personally (through your representative) putting apples resources to work on my little problem

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

The Future of Video Games... and possibly reality...

If you grew up with virtual graphics and interactions that looked just as real as the real world, would you be able to differentiate which world you were in?

This is a real question for kids growing up today. It is some ways is an old question. Decartes dealt with a derivative of this question in his paper world exploration. He was concerned about whether God was good, or an evil Genius manipulating us to our own detriment. He wondered if God could make an entire world out of paper that was so convincing that people would not know.

Perhaps if he was writing today, Decartes Evil Genius would us pixels instead of paper.

The question does provoke thought. In a world where video games are so "real" and even evoke feeling and emotion...

is it possible that the virtual world begins to feel more 'real' and 'significant' to people than the actual real world?

David Perry made an awesome presentation about this at TEDS... check it out

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Where is Matt? Where he is he is dancing...

I found this video a little late... apparently it has been around since 2005 or so... but Matt... the squirrel salutes you... #1 for coming up with a great way to travel the world... and #2... for getting someone else to sponsor it...


Where the Hell is Matt? (2008) from Matthew Harding on Vimeo.

Cohen... the newest edition to the Squirrel Family

Cohen is fast approaching his third week of life...

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Very cool presentation..

I was super impressed by how this presentation was put together...



What do you think of the Video style?

What do you think about the content?

Monday, September 15, 2008

Knowledge vs. Connection

A few months ago I was headed to Bozeman Montana for a weekend of white water rafting with some friends. On the way out, all the way to wyoming already we called ahead to check on the conditions, but what we heard was anything but good news. It was snowing and raining, and the river was nearly impassable (later we read in the news about a group who died trying to take on the rafting there that weekend!!!)

We had lots of knowledge about what and where we were going to do, but the conditions changed and all of that knowledge would not have done us any good....

Except that I also had my iPhone, and my laptop... So in Wyoming at some random gas station which happened to have free wifi I put my iPhone and Computer to great us... My hard drive had zero info about rafting in it, but once it was connected to the internet, it quickly was able to find great information about rafting 8 hours south of Bozeman, in Colorado's Brown Canyon. What it failed to "know" it was quickly able to learn once it was connected...

Here is my point... while often the church is very busy teaching people about God, and filling up sunday school classes to teach people about God... really all of that knowledge is not as helpful as a real connection to God.

We need to know truth about God, but that truth can become empty facts if we miss the key point. God wants us to know him, not just about him.

In life, this makes all the difference... a real connection to God allows us to always be able to find, through our constant connection with him, all that we need for life and God-like-ness. On the other hands, facts, without connection, can often lead us to an empty God-Box which fails to measure up to the complexity and richness of life...

I think I am really guilty of focusing to much on the facts and missing the connection God is really inviting me to... how about you?